My RAGE model compared to The Wheel of Life

 

[I asked ChatGPT to report on the differences between Meyer's Wheel of Life and Mo Khan's RAGE]

Comparative Report: Meyer's Wheel of Life vs. Mo Khan's RAGE Model

Introduction

This report provides a comparative analysis of two influential personal development tools: Meyer's Wheel of Life and Mo Khan's RAGE Model. Both models are designed to enhance self-awareness and personal growth, yet they differ significantly in their approach and methodology.

Meyer's Wheel of Life

• Overview: The Wheel of Life is a holistic self-assessment tool designed by Paul J. Meyer, a pioneer in the field of motivational thinking and self-improvement.
• Components: It typically includes segments such as Career, Personal Growth, Health, Family & Friends, Finances, Spirituality, Recreation, and Physical Environment.
• Function: Users rate their satisfaction in each area, visually representing life balance and identifying areas for improvement.
• Application: Widely used in coaching and self-help, it guides personal development and goal setting.
• Learn More: Success Motivation Institute

Mo Khan's RAGE Model

• Overview: The RAGE Model, an acronym for Reality, Aspirations, Goals, Expectations, is a framework for personal development conceptualized by Mo Khan.
• Components: It involves introspection across various life 'personas', assessing the current reality, setting aspirations, establishing goals, and managing expectations for each persona.
• Function: The model uses agile management techniques and a detailed scoring system for prioritization and tracking progress.
• Application: Khan’s approach is detailed and systematic, suitable for those who prefer an analytical approach to personal development.
• Learn More: Mo Khan’s Blog

Similarities

1. Holistic Approach: Both models provide a comprehensive view of personal life, emphasizing multiple areas or aspects.
2. Self-Reflection: They encourage self-assessment as a means of identifying areas of focus.
3. Goal-Oriented: Each model promotes setting and pursuing personal goals.
4. Personal Development: They are tools for enhancing self-awareness and guiding growth.

Differences

1. Complexity: The Wheel of Life is simpler and more visual, while the RAGE Model is more complex and analytical.
2. Approach: Meyer’s model is qualitative, focusing on self-rated satisfaction, whereas Khan’s model is quantitative, employing a scoring system.
3. Focus Areas: The Wheel of Life has predefined life segments; the RAGE Model allows for personalized 'personas'.
4. Tracking: The RAGE Model includes rigorous tracking mechanisms, unlike the Wheel of Life.
5. Background: Meyer's model stems from motivational training, while Khan’s is influenced by agile product management.

Conclusion

Meyer's Wheel of Life and Mo Khan's RAGE Model, while sharing the goal of fostering personal growth, differ in structure, complexity, and application. The Wheel of Life is a straightforward tool for periodic self-assessment, ideal for a broad audience. In contrast, the RAGE Model offers a detailed framework for systematically setting, prioritizing, and tracking personal development goals, appealing to those who prefer a more structured approach. Both models provide valuable insights into personal development, and the choice between them depends on individual preferences and the desired level of detail and structure in personal growth planning.

Pearls of Umar ibn Al-Khattab (3)

“Go easy on yourself, for the outcome of all affairs is determined by Allah’s decree. If something is meant to go elsewhere, it will never come your way, but if it is yours by destiny, from you it cannot flee.”

“Sit with those who have sinned and repented for they have the softest of hearts.” 

“Learn dignity and tranquility.”

“No amount of guilt can change the past and no amount of worrying can change the future.”

“Sometimes the people with the worst past, create the best future."

-- Umar ibn Al-Khattab

ChatGPT - Stoicism and Islam - common principles?

Yesterday, I had a good conversation with ChatGPT exploring Islam Inc. as a way to explain Islam from the perspective of a Silicon Valley company. As part of this chat, we explored the leadership principles of the people from Islam who were instrumental in making Islam Inc. endure over centuries.

As a long time reader of the modern books of Stoic philosophy, I acknowledged most of Stoic principles from the lens of Islamic principles. A large part, IMHO overlaps and so I don't have any issues promoting Stoicism - although I do advise one doesn't have to look outside the leaders of Islam to find what they're looking for.

I wanted to inspect my opinion so I asked ChatGPT - turns out, I am right... :-) I like the way ChatGPT empathises and also respectfully put PBUH (Peace Be Upon Him) when referring to the prophet Muhammad (PBUH).

I wonder if the source of ChatGPT's response came from here? It would be great to see how the machine reasons and cites references that seeded its response.

When viewed from Stoic philosophy lens, would you say Islam Inc's leaders embodied Stoicism or exceeded it?

Stoicism is a school of philosophy founded in Athens by Zeno of Citium in the early 3rd century BCE. It teaches that the path to happiness and virtue is found in accepting the present moment and focusing on what one can control, rather than being disturbed by external events or emotions. Stoicism emphasizes rational thinking, self-discipline, and emotional resilience.

When examining the leadership of Islam Inc. through the lens of Stoic philosophy, there are certainly some parallels and overlapping principles. Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) and the successive leaders of Islam Inc. exhibited traits such as self-discipline, patience, perseverance, and emotional resilience, which align with Stoic ideals.

However, it is important to recognize that Islam is a distinct belief system with its own set of values and teachings, which are not identical to Stoic philosophy. For example, Islam places a strong emphasis on the belief in God, the importance of prayer, and submission to the will of God. These concepts are not central to Stoic thought, which is more focused on the individual's control over their own reactions and emotions.

It would be an oversimplification to say that the leaders of Islam Inc. either embodied Stoicism or exceeded it. Instead, it is more accurate to acknowledge that there are areas of overlap and shared values between the two belief systems, while also recognizing their distinct philosophical and theological foundations.

Yes, agreed. Let's focus on the areas of overlap. What are they?

There are several areas of overlap between Stoicism and the teachings of Islam Inc. when considering the leadership traits of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) and the successive leaders. Some of these shared principles include:

1. Self-discipline: Both Stoicism and Islam emphasize the importance of self-discipline and self-control. In Islam, self-discipline is practiced through prayer, fasting, and adherence to moral guidelines. Stoicism encourages self-discipline to maintain rational thinking and emotional resilience in the face of external events or emotions.

2. Patience and perseverance: In both belief systems, patience and perseverance are regarded as essential virtues. Stoicism teaches that individuals should accept the present moment and focus on what they can control, while Islam emphasizes patience in the face of adversity and maintaining faith in God's plan.

3. Emotional resilience: Stoicism and Islam both encourage emotional resilience and the ability to maintain inner peace and tranquility, regardless of external circumstances. Stoicism emphasizes the power of rational thought and self-control to manage emotions, while Islam teaches that reliance on God and spiritual practices can bring peace and contentment.

4. Gratitude and contentment: Both Stoicism and Islam encourage gratitude and contentment with one's circumstances. Stoicism teaches that individuals should appreciate what they have and avoid excessive desires, while Islam encourages gratitude for God's blessings and discourages envy or greed.

5. Compassion and empathy: Both belief systems value compassion and empathy toward others. Stoicism teaches that humans are all part of a larger community and should support one another, while Islam emphasizes the importance of compassion, charity, and helping those in need.

6. Focus on virtue and moral character: Stoicism and Islam both stress the importance of developing strong moral character and living according to ethical principles. Stoicism teaches that virtue is the ultimate good and that individuals should strive to act with wisdom, courage, justice, and moderation. In Islam, moral character is essential in following God's guidance and becoming a righteous believer.

While these areas of overlap exist, it is important to remember that Stoicism and Islam are distinct belief systems with their own unique philosophical and theological foundations. The overlaps can provide an interesting point of comparison but should not be taken as a complete equivalence between the two systems.

ChatGPT - understanding Islam in Silicon Valley terms

For a long time I wanted to write a blog post about how I would model Islam as a tech company - how would we go about describing the phenomenal growth rate in today's terms. 

What would the growth curve look like? What will be the driver metric, KPI for investors? What are the leadership principles that the leaders of Islam embodied that endured for centuries? 

Are there any anecdotes we can learn from Islamic leadership principles and apply them in today's context, as a productive Muslim, working in the modern day?

So I asked ChatGPT :) Suffice to say, the results were not bad at all, balanced and came with disclosures on assumptions, cautions and disclaimers. Nevertheless, the power of ChatGPT as an assistive tool to add value to my life/work continues to grow daily.

Are you familiar with Islamic history, prophet Muhammad (PBUH) and the rise of Islam?

Yes, I am familiar with Islamic history, Prophet Muhammad (PBUH), and the rise of Islam. Islam is one of the world's major religions, and it began in the early 7th century CE in the Arabian Peninsula.

Prophet Muhammad (PBUH - Peace Be Upon Him) was born in Mecca, in present-day Saudi Arabia, around 570 CE. He is considered the last prophet of God in Islam, and Muslims believe that he received revelations from God through the angel Gabriel. These revelations were later compiled into the Islamic holy book, the Quran.

Muhammad began preaching the message of Islam in Mecca, but faced opposition from the local tribes. In 622 CE, he and his followers migrated to the city of Medina, which marked the beginning of the Islamic calendar and is known as the Hijra. In Medina, the Muslim community continued to grow, and Muhammad eventually became the leader of the city.

Over the next few years, Muslims fought a series of battles against the Meccan tribes, eventually emerging victorious. In 630 CE, Muhammad and his followers returned to Mecca, where they took control of the city and the Kaaba, the most sacred site in Islam. This event marked the beginning of the rapid expansion of Islam throughout the Arabian Peninsula and beyond.

After the death of Prophet Muhammad in 632 CE, the Islamic empire expanded under the leadership of the first four caliphs: Abu Bakr, Umar, Uthman, and Ali. They are known as the "Rightly Guided Caliphs" in Sunni Islam, and their rule marked the beginning of the Rashidun Caliphate. Over the following centuries, Islamic rule spread throughout the Middle East, North Africa, and parts of Europe and Asia, leaving a lasting impact on world history and culture.

Great. Now describe Islam and the rise of Islam over the centuries as if you're describing a silicon valley company. Start with Prophet Muhammad as the CEO and account for the 23 years of the early stages of the company. Then take into account what followed next of the meteoric rise of Islam as part of the company's global strategy. Show how the business expanded and scaled. Imagine the value of the business if someone invested $100 at the start and speculate what the value of the company would be today.

ChatGPT as my new research assistant

I continue to be blown away by ChatGPT. This is a game changer!

One of my biggest misses in my life is missed opportunities converting my ideas in starting up my own company. It's not like my ideas were not great, it's that I lacked the follow-through and risk-taking to get started executing once my idea was validated.  I would spend so much time researching, doing the market analysis, identifying opportunity, writing up the idea and then failing to take it further forward. Here's one example -  the start-up research I did for my original personametry idea about the application of monitoring physiological signals that can help manage mental well-being, like stress before this topic hit mainstream. Check my Trello workspace if you're curious. 

I spent a good 300+ hours doing the research and thinking of the opportunity. I'd wake up at 4am every morning, doing the research, before starting my official work-day at 8.30am, after doing the school run. I also invested in working a 4-day work-week to create space for researching my ideas, because my goal then in 2015/16, was to startup a product company. Since I was consulting, I could manage my own time and take a hit on my earnings because my personal goal was important at the time literally putting my money where my mouth is. Unfortunately the consulting work got busy, and my personal life went a little off-balance, that made me rethink my focus areas - so I left start-up ideas aside. If you've read my posts on my RAGE model tracking, I dropped the start-up ideas focus since 3-4 years ago. Work, Life & Family took priority over my aspirations of booting my own start-up entrepreneur.

Until now, with ChatGPT in the mix, I'm reconsidering my options. I can save so much time, exploring my ideas without compromising my other life streams. All I need is to timebox at least an hour each day, and a couple hours over weekends to get back into tackling my backlog of 100+ ideas that were sitting on the shelf that last few years.

My latest thesis is this: As I enter into the second half of my working life, with at least another 20 years left to work in a career - I need to be doing more purposeful work during my core work hours and not as side volunteering gig. Since being a Muslim is at the centre of all my decisions across my life and work streams (part of the reason I left a CTO job had to do with staying true to my personal moral value system: example - promoting video content I'm not comfortable with, targeting people to spend time on endless watching of video for entertainment wasting hours of life away, building gambling and sports content betting technology, etc. This is why I joined AWS and decided to get inside the engine room in B2B enterprise systems but it's been a tough adjustment after 20 years building consumer apps). So, now I want to be spending my time working on impactful, value adding streams. As a Muslim, we believe in investing for the Akhirah (the next world). My ultimate BHAG was about becoming financially independent before retirement so that I could start an NGO/NPO focused on socially beneficial projects. Unfortunately, I'm very, very far from this goal. The other option was to join an NPO/NGO and contribute my skills as a GM/CTO/Manager, earning a reduced salary but at least I'll be happy doing good work. Alas, my searches to date have yielded nothing material (living in South Africa is also a limiting factor). So my latest idea - why don't I find opportunities in the Islamic Tech space? After all, I am a seasoned technology leader, surely there are opportunities in the Islamic tech space worth checking out? The total addressable market for Islamic Tech is 1 billion+ people. Introducing tech for this space initially (which would scale to the entire planet maybe), benefiting the ummah, in this world and the next, would be something, wouldn't it?

This is where ChatGPT came in to help. In the past, I'd outsource the research to some gig worker and pay up to $10 per hour for a research report. Or, I would spend hours of my own time, doing the research. No more! With ChatGPT, I can do the initial research in just one hour!! 

I am still to dive deep into the research, during my weekends - but I'd like to share with my readers, and especially for the muslim professionals out there, similar to me, looking to find opportunities to contribute to spiritually uplifting projects (either community or paid-for work), the amazing power of ChatGPT.

I'm not leaving my current job anytime soon though, insha Allah (although this is never guaranteed especially when there's real uncertainty now with Amazon's latest round of layoffs). 

I am however, being open about a topic that is becoming increasingly important and relevant to the aging workforce - as people approach their fifties, their stage of work-life changes from chasing the career ladder to seeking fulfilment, doing work they can feel proud of, to leave a legacy behind, to leave the world in a much better state they found it. That's where my head is at. I am not interested in chasing the next promotion. If promo comes my way, it should be an organic, natural result of my sincere contributions, backed up by people who value my contributions. I want to invest my time wisely doing work that matters to me. Right now, my work is about building leaders and growing people, being the modern elder. Ideally, it would be great if I could find something that builds up my Akhirah points and also get paid for it at the same time :-) 

Here's the transcript of ChatGPT as my research assistant:

Pearls of Umar ibn Al-Khattab (2)

“Remind yourselves of Allah, for it is a cure. Do not remind yourselves of the people, for it is a disease.”

“A man should be like a child with his wife, but if she needs him, he should act like a man.” 

“The most beloved of people to me is he that points out my flaws to me.”

“Learn the Arabic language; it will sharpen your wisdom.”

“Sit with those who love Allah, for that enlightens the mind.

-- Umar ibn Al-Khattab

Pearls of Umar ibn Al-Khattab (1)

The best way to defeat someone is to beat him at politeness.

Do not grieve over what has passed unless it makes you work harder for what is about to come.

Whosoever shows you your faults is your friend. Those that pay you lip service in praise are your executioners.

I have never regretted my silence, as for my speech I’ve regretted it many times

The less attachment to the world. The easier your life.

-- Umar ibn Al-Khattab

Imam al-Ghazali on Time Management

Your time should not be without any structure, such that you occupy yourself arbitrarily with whatever comes along.

Rather, you must take account of yourself and order your worship during the day and the night, assigning to each period of time an activity that must not be neglected nor replaced by another activity.

By this ordering of time, the blessing in time will show itself. A person who leaves himself without a plan as animals do, not knowing what he is to do at any given moment, will spend most of his time fruitlessly.

Your time is your life, and your life is your capital: by it you make your trade, and by it you will reach the eternal bounties in the proximity of Allah.

Every single breath of yours is a priceless jewel, because it is irreplaceable; once it is gone, there is no return for it.

So do not be like fools who rejoice each day as their wealth increases while their lives decrease. What good is there in wealth that increases while one’s lifespan decreases?

Do not rejoice except in an increase of knowledge or an increase of good works.

Truly they are your two friends who will accompany you in your grave, when your spouse, your wealth, your children, and your friends will remain behind.

-- Imam al-Ghazali

 

2022 Personametry Tracking - Work/Life Balance & Harmony Update

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It is time for my yearly ritual of analysing my time spent the previous year. This ritual is one of analysis and reflection, setting up the stage for planning & making new intentions for the upcoming year, 2023! 

I've been doing this exercise consistently over the last eight years! Am I crazy? Maybe?! I've become quite the data junkie, and I'm loving it! 

I know that tracking every activity and accounting for every minute of one's life might seem like overkill to most people. I on the other hand, actually quite enjoy doing so! :-) Primarily because having insights into how I spend my time has really helped me be more conscious and intentional about my aspirations, goals and expectations covering all dimensions of my life, seeking balance and harmony in my personal and professional streams. My methods allow me to focus and maintain discipline with my time...

This is my value system that describes my streams:

Muslim | Individual | Professional (Work) | Husband | Family-Man | Social/Friend

When someone asks me the following: Mo, how's life? Mo, how are you doing work-wise? Mo, how's things? Are you happy? Are you meeting your aspirations? Mo, what consumes most of your time these days? I can have a sincere and authentic conversation about it.

Yes, as some of my friends have argued that you "just know" instinctively where your time is being spent, on what and you just know the areas you need to improve on. Sure, I get that and agree. I find it much more useful to validate my instincts, verify anecdotes with quantifiable data & metrics to help me answer such questions: Where am I spending my time? Am I spending time in the right areas according to my priorities? Am I heading in the right direction? How am I growing? Where am I in my stages of growth across all my personas? How do I measure success? Am I growing holistically as a person?

In 2015, I researched productivity and personal development methods extensively, culminating to me creating my own frameworks:

1. RAGE (Reality Aspirations Goals Expectations). Knowing yourself, i.e. what you stand for, your value system, by identifying Personas. For each Persona, define Aspirations/Goals that becomes your long term personal roadmap. What emerges from this is a scorecard that you can track your progress, see example from 2020.
2. PERSONAMETRY is another concept I created that essentially captures key metrics about yourself, TIME being our most valuable resource. If time is our most valuable resource, do we not owe it to ourselves to account for it? For each Persona you identify with, Personametry is your personal telemetry. It can be extended to a variety of use cases, including overall happiness/stress sentiment analysis. If you're keen to learn more, check out this product specification document I created years ago, but alas, haven't developed the app for it as yet (alas, no time, wasn't a priority!)

Personametry complements RAGE by providing data insights, that I use to analyse if I'm trending in the right direction or not. Keeping a personal RAGE scorecard helps me keep track of how I'm progressing against my personal roadmap. In the last eight years alone, these frameworks have helped me reach my highest potential in climbing up the career ladder (making CTO, executive role), becoming debt free and remaining debt-free for 7 years and-running, improve my marriage enhancing the foundations (insha Allah), and rekindled relationship with family members, including long lost friendships, develop a more consciously confident identity as a Muslim in the workplace, make big bold decisions of starting over in my career (like walking away from CTO and big financial incentives rewards, take a pay-cut and step down in role) or start my own consulting, also make time to focus on paying it forward by offering my time to coach/mentor for free, etc. RAGE/Personametry has also helped me in being critically selective of where/what/whom I spend time with, I've learnt to say "NO" more often guarding my personas and setting boundaries, even with my own family and dearest loved ones.

Emerging from this experience so far are some interesting learning experiences, such as how one's goals and aspirations can change with time, depending on one's stage of life. For instance, where I'm at right now in 2023, is my profession is no longer what drives me (I'm consciously not seeking out the next promotion or level up because I've been there already and experienced the life of an executive), as I'm now seeking new experiences centred on creating more purpose, meaning and fulfilment...Having said this, I remain a pragmatist and so am open to new job opportunities that more closely align with my value system (example: NGOs/NPOs looking for CTO/CIO expertise, Africa-friendly timezone working hours is also being considered). If you know of any opportunities in this area, do get in touch!

Analysing 2022 v 2021 - Data Analysis & Insights

Since 2016 I've tracked 24,983 (±25K) activities as data points, tracking my life streams as: Muslim | Individual | Professional (Work) | Husband | Family-Man | Social/Friend - thus logging 60,572 (±60K) hours with an error tolerance of ±0.5% (99.5% capturing accuracy). In 2022 alone, I logged 8,715 hours, of which: Professional Work consumed 23%,  Personal Life 43% with the physical constraint of Sleeping accounting for 34%. Yep, we sleep for a third of our lives, and I have the data to back that up!

Suffice to say, I've made some good gains in 2022 that I hope to carry through into 2023. Check the slide show for the rest...

P.S. If you'd like to have a coffee/virtual chat about my RAGE/Personametry concepts, or you're curious to learn more, or seeking a mentor/coaching/networking opportunity or you simply want to learn about my workflows, then please get in touch!